Being offensive when getting our points across will not work because the other person will only become resistant to our idea. Also, avoid grandstanding.
Being defensive when getting our points challenged will not work because the other person will only become resistant to our idea. Also, avoid grandstanding.
Love is the key.
Love is the only way.
Love that is not based on like-ness or favour, love that has nothing to do with me or with them, but it exists on its own, serving its own purpose!